It can be terribly unpleasant to be betrayed by a loving relationship. The degree of discomfort is often determined by a number of factors:
- Was this a one-time occurrence? Or was it a recurrence?
- Was it unintentional cheating, such as cheating at the Christmas lunch after getting blasted? Or was it deliberate or intentional cheating, the kind of cheating where a person knows just how much grief he or she will bring the other person?